A Past to remembered
If I’m not there to help you prepare for this next chapter of your life, to help you decide who to spend your life with, to be there to share your joys and sadness, your giggles and your painful tears, know this...
Know that no matter who you find, he is not your Mr. Right; Allah is. HE is the One to depend on. HE is the One who will make everything alright. Allah is and always will be your BF (Best Friend).
When things are good, be grateful to HIM, and when things aren’t so good, cry to HIM.
Know that your success isn’t in being the world to this lady. Your success, your worthiness is from Allah. You are not incomplete without her.
Don’t try to change her in to someone she is not. Don’t nag her to get your way and don’t be afraid to love her. But love moderately. Maintain your own happiness. Don’t become so full of her that you are empty inside. Fill your being with the remembrance of Allah.
Know that you will have ups and downs. That’s normal. And know that when you have downs, it doesn’t equal divorce. Know that if you distance yourself from him(Allah), he may distance himself from you too, so don’t be afraid to be the first to come back.
Remember to make her feel important and appreciated. If you don’t, who else will? Know that if you want the lady of your dreams, become the man of your own dreams first.
Remember you have faults too. Work on them before you correct hers.
Know that even though you saw your father and I smile and play, and you saw me greet him at the door when he came home (even if I just saw him), that I too had a tear-stained prayer mat. But I stayed. Because I knew you needed me.
Know that I want happiness and love for you. Better than what I had myself. And know that the only way to get it is by sticking to Allah.
That is some of the things my mother said to me after my father divorced her. She wanted me to know that if i want to love someone love her with all your heart, but always remember Allah is the one to be remembered and thanked....
Sad story, Aiyy?...LOL. :D , this time i wrote this to everyone who had and felt the same thing as i felt, that you should appreciate the people that LOVE you and the people that YOU love...if your love is not returned, remember Allah has reasons for that....only you alone know that reason....Stay strong and never give up, Pray to Allah, remember he is always with you..Assalamualaikum..
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